Happy to be D

Why do they keep making styles that don't work for us?

2008-10-27T07:56:00.000-07:00

The other day I decide to treat myself to something nice...so what is a girl to do? hmmm SHOP! Charlotte Russe has some gorgeous blouses, but as usual I encounter the same problem. There is this new style, which they are calling "bubble hem". Great idea! It covers the little extra belly we have AND we are in style! Now the problem with some the designs is the portion that will cover the bust. In this particular one it was ruching on the bust. Even thou it looks great on the hanger, once you put it on it makes the bust look flatted out! Somebody should tell designers WOMAN HAVE CURVES AND WE ARE PROUD! There is no need to make them look flatted out! I'm sure a girl with smaller chest, this and other styles would look great...but we are not all flat cheated! What are they thinking! Also there the style of the button down shirts with what seems to be called a ruffle or "bib"... Very pretty style, but on it made me look like a clown!

Breaking out of your forced personal style

2008-09-22T20:53:00.000-07:00

I had one of those " I want to have a breast reduction" weekends. I went shopping for a sexy top and of course everything fit too tight at my bust or too loose at my waist. I was looking for a button down blouse. I couldn't find anything! I think that we women with busty figures get so use to not wearing the clothes that we want to wear, that we have developed a personal style based on what we can find that fits instead of whats in fashion. This is whats called Forced Personal Style. I find myself not even trying on clothes that would look great on me, just because I am use to trying them on without success. Last week my girlfriends pushed me to try on a spaghetti strap dress with a small waist. The dress had enough room for my 36DD's but I felt reluctant because I never thought I could wear any spaghetti strap dress. WOW the small waist helped to hold up the girls and the large cup held the boobies great. I looooove this dress. And when I came out of the dressing room to show my girlfriends the whole store stared at me ( stared in the good way). Some cute guy walking by the store slowed down and actually STOPED to get a look at me in my dress ( I winked at him).

So the moral to the storey is, try the clothes that we see in magazines, look for clothes that are especaily made to fit us, and when a cute guy notices you wink at him.

Happy To Be D

2008-06-23T19:38:00.000-07:00

This blog is for women like me with large breasts ( busty) and average size bodies. I am a 130 pound, 5'8", 26-year-old woman with 36DD cup breast (all natural). Over the years I have learned to deal with the pros and cons of my hourglass figure. From having to deal with the gawking stares of men, to the jealous stares of women, it has been a journey to find comfort in my own skin. Having a small frame and large breasts seems to be everyone's ideal look here in southern Florida. I know women who’ve paid good money for breast enhancements only to realize that with large breasts come some drawbacks. But don't get me wrong, I wouldn't trade my body for anything in the world, it took me a long time to except me for who I am and I'm not about to go backwards now. It's just the little things that bother me like finding clothes that fit properly. If I buy tops and dresses that fit me in the waist, then it’s too tight in the chest, but if I buy them large enough for my breast, then they hang down and make me look three sizes larger! I have found a website that has clothes especially made for women with big breasts and average to large size bodies: http://www.delightfullyd.com/ . They carry sexy tops, dresses, swimwear, and some lingerie. I love their business attire because it's very hard to find business shirts that fit my breasts without having to buy a couple of sizes too big.
I decided that this blog was needed when I saw how many questions there were on Yahoo answers that asked how to find clothes that fit women with large breasts. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/?qid=20080605000453AAntFeU Women like us need a forum to support each other, and this is it.